The Art of Authenticity: How to Be Yourself on Any Stage

Have you ever watched a speaker and thought, "Wow, they're just so naturally good"? It's easy to fall into the trap of believing that great public speakers are born with a microphone in hand, dazzling audiences with their innate charisma. But here's a little secret: the most captivating speakers are not those with the most polished gestures or the grandest vocabulary. They're the ones who master the art of being authentically themselves, sharing their true voice and story with the world.

The Importance of Authenticity

Why does authenticity matter so much? Because at its core, speaking is about connection. When you're authentic, your audience can sense it. They lean in, they listen, and most importantly, they trust. Being authentic means your message isn't just heard; it's felt. It transforms your speech from a mere presentation into a shared experience, making your message not just memorable but truly impactful.

Finding Your Authentic Voice

So, how do you find this authentic voice of yours? It starts with a little introspection. Reflect on what matters most to you—your values, your passions, your quirks. These are the golden nuggets that will make your speeches uniquely yours. Try this: record yourself talking about something you love, no filters allowed. Notice the moments you light up, the phrases that feel most natural, and the stories that flow easily. That's your authentic voice peeking through.

Authenticity in Action: Techniques and Practices

Bringing your authentic self to the stage isn't just about what you say; it's about how you say it. It's in the way you allow your hands to move naturally, the way you let your tone fluctuate with your emotions, and the way you choose words that you'd actually use in a conversation. Practice in settings where you feel comfortable—maybe it's in front of a friend or just your mirror. The key is repetition in a safe space, gradually building up to more public venues. If you're looking for a virtual space like that where you can practice with other folks working on the same things, check out That Presentation Crew, an online community for people to work on their public speaking and presentation skills in a supportive environment.

Overcoming the Fear of Being Yourself

Let's face it: being vulnerable, especially in front of an audience, is scary. The fear of judgment can be paralyzing. But remember, vulnerability is also where your greatest strength lies. It's what makes your message resonate. To ease into this vulnerability, start with smaller, more intimate groups where the stakes feel lower. Focus on the impact your message can have on just one person in the room. With time and practice, the fear will start to diminish, replaced by the confidence that comes from knowing your authenticity has power.

Next Steps

Embracing authenticity in public speaking is a journey, one that requires patience, practice, and a healthy dose of courage. But the rewards—connection, impact, trust—are immeasurable. So, take that first step. Share a piece of your story, use your genuine voice, and let the world see the real you. Because when you do, you're not just giving a presentation; you're making a difference.

If you'd like help on that journey, reach out to That Presentation Coach, Sara Thompson, who offers both 1-on-1 coaching sessions and an online community for those who would like to be more confident, authentic, and prepared public speakers.